Who Hates You?

There’s always going to be people who dislike you and your company or your product. You can’t avoid that. While I both say that it is important to know what your competition is doing, I also agree with what Tyler Hurst wrote about not worrying about your competition.

Building on his point, it is important to know that if you are doing anything of consequence – anything that makes a difference in the world at all – then you’ll have people who hate you.

You’ll have people who badmouth you, degrade you, and tell all manner of half truths and outright lies to tear you down.
You’ll hear that you are overpriced, understaffed, or closing.
You’ll hear about how you are not using the latest or best tools or techniques.
You’ll hear that someone else can do it better, faster, cheaper.
You’ll hear that your clients are all leaving you.
You’ll hear about how you aren’t going to solve their problems anymore like you used to.
You’ll hear that your customer service has gone to hell.
Etc etc

You hearing these things are bad enough, when your current or potential clients are hearing these things – that’s when you’re going to start steaming.

The best thing you can do in this case is not to fight it, let your actions prove them wrong. When a client hears things like this, reassure them with all sincerity that you are still taking care of them the way you always have. Eventually your success will ruin their credibility.

If no one hates you, you’re not doing a good enough job of being remarkable.


  • http://tdhurst.com Tyler Hurst

    Agreed! Granted, there will be smart people who will disagree with what you’re doing, but seldom are they vocal enough to be considered haters and they’re usually too busy on their own thing to care about what you’re doing.

    It takes far too much effort to defend yourself. You could be spending that time improving yourself or what you offer.

  • http://www.leogodin.net Leo

    Great article Chris. I especially like the last line. That is true in many areas of life.

  • http://mindspace.net Brent

    People hate Presidents, they hate CEOs, they hate success and try to pull it down.

    If you were doing a terrible job or sitting around like a doof nobody would care about you.

    Would you rather be hated or an irrelevant feather in wind?